Valerie Asher
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Rise from Pain. Rebuild with Purpose.
Board Certified Consulting Hypnotist
Creator of The Phoenix Rising Way©
Specializing in Grief, Trauma & Stress Transformation
Welcome!
If you're here, something inside you is searching for a way through the pain. Maybe it's grief that won't let go. Maybe it's trauma that plays on repeat. Maybe it's anxious thoughts that steal your peace.
I see you. And I've been there.
I know what it's like to carry grief in your chest, your stomach, your soul. I know the weight of it—whether it's the sudden disappearance of a beloved companion, the slow goodbye to someone you loved, the trauma of events you can't stop replaying, or the anxious thoughts that won't quiet.
From pet loss to human bereavement, from trauma to overwhelming stress—I've walked these paths. And I've learned that healing is possible, no matter the cause of your sorrow.
That's why I created The Phoenix Rising Way©—a guided hypnosis protocol that transforms grief from an active pain loop into peaceful wisdom. You can rebuild, emerge stronger, and find peace and purpose again.
The best place to start is right here!
I'm Valerie Asher, Board Certified Consulting Hypnotist. Thanks for stopping by—I'm glad you're here.
You might be:
Feeling alone, struggling with self-doubt, lost without direction
Overwhelmed by sadness, grief, or loss that won't let go
Trapped in emotional pain, stress, anxious thoughts, or past trauma
Believing that joy would be a betrayal of the person or pet who died
Here's the truth: Living fully and remembering can coexist. Allowing yourself moments of lightness doesn't diminish your love or your loss. It honors it.
If you're ready to find emotional balance and freedom from grief, let's talk about your next steps.
Grief is a very long journey,
a journey you take on your own.
And no one can know,
all the sorrow you feel,
for it is your sorrow alone.
Grief is an awful intruder,
It comes and it stays
night and day.
And no one can look
at the way that you grieve
and then tell you,
“No, this is the way.”
~ Anne Peterson
Poem was originally shared on AfterTalk.com
You've been told "it's okay to grieve." Only no one told you how to do it without getting stuck in it.
There's a difference between healthy reflection (which allows you to process and move forward) and rumination (the repetitive, overwhelming cycle that traps you in pain).
Healthy reflection gives you distance and perspective. Rumination keeps you drowning.
I can teach you the difference—and show you how to cultivate Good Grief from the start.
The Uniqueness of Pet Loss GRIEF
The bond between you and your pet is unlike any other. Losing a cherished companion can leave a deep emptiness and profound grief.
This intense emotional response is real and can even manifest physically, with some pet owners experiencing "Broken Heart Syndrome," a temporary condition triggered by grief.
It's important to remember that you're not alone in this deep sorrow.
Many people underestimate the significant impact on both your emotional and physical well-being.
Healing doesn't mean forgetting your beloved companion; it means finding a way to carry their love with you while also allowing yourself to experience moments of joy and peace.
If you're struggling to cope, The Phoenix Rising Way© can help you navigate pet grief and find comfort, healing, and peace.
"A PROFOUNDLY POSITIVE EXPERIENCE"
There are a lot of skills and talents that make a great hypnotist, but rarely is there an opportunity to experience and speak to a hypnotist's resilience and flexibility the way I can for Valerie.
When my first experience of Valerie's hypnosis in a group went far from planned, she offered me the chance to work with her again personally. She listened to what went wrong the first time, and she distinctly adapted and tailored the session to my needs. The result? A profoundly positive experience, completely different than the first time. She helped me heal the issue at hand and so many more in just a few adjustments.
You shouldn't just pick Valerie, you should stick with Valerie. Even if things don't turn out right the first time (which they very much did for many others), she'll bounce right back and do amazing work the next time. Stay with her. You'll be happy you did."
— Claire C.
"POWERFUL PROTOCOL"
Powerful and Transformative.
"Amazing to let go of all that grief that I didn't know I was holding. A unique, creative and power protocol for releasing grief and reminding of me to keep the wonderful memories.
— Client - S.B.
""TALENTED AND TRANSFORMATIVE, A NEW PERSPECTIVE"
"Valerie is incredibly talented and has a strong desire to assist people along their life’s journey. I had my first session with Valerie in late 2017 where I was able to gain a new perspective on my career and the path I knew I was meant to continue on.
More recently, I had a lingering fear that was creeping into my daily life. In a session I was able to experience even more skills she has developed. I have begun to feel more peace as a result. I love that Valerie is a life-long learner who continues to hone her skills. You will love the soothing tone of her voice and how easily she puts one at ease."
— Teresa
"PROFOUND"
"This was the deepest, most profound experience I've ever had—in my entire life—for dealing with grief and the emotions surrounding it that I didn't even know I still had. Everyone has grief about someone or something, and everyone should have a session with Valerie. Everyone."
— Lisu
Ready to Begin?
Schedule your complimentary "Where to Start" call today. We'll talk about where you are, what you need, and how I can help.
Personalized Support for Growth and Rebuilding
Personalized Support for Growth and Rebuilding
This isn't generic, one-size-fits-all. Every session is tailored to your experience, your story, your nervous system.
INSIGHT | SUPPORT | RAPPORT
I work with:
• Insight — Access your own inner wisdom (you already have the answers)
• Support — Compassionate presence without judgment
• Rapport — You'll feel seen, heard, safe
You don't need fixing. You need a guide who's walked this path and knows the way through.
Ready to Transform Your Pain into Peace?
Whether you're navigating grief, trauma, or anxious overwhelm, the path forward starts with one conversation.
[Book Your Free "Where to Start" Call]
We'll talk about where you are, where you want to be, and whether The Phoenix Rising Way© or my Neuro-Hypnotic Development Program is the right fit for you.
TRANSFORM TRAUMA
TRANSFORM TRAUMA
Trauma disrupts your brain's natural healing, keeping you stuck in fear, hypervigilance, or emotional numbness. I help restore safety in your nervous system so you can move forward with peace.
ANXIOUS + STRESS
ANXIOUS + STRESS
Constant worry, racing thoughts, and feeling on edge drain your energy and steal your calm. Through personalized hypnosis, you can quiet your nervous system and regain control.
GRIEF
GRIEF
Grief affects every part of you — your body, mind, and spirit. Whether it's sudden loss or anticipated goodbye, you can transform pain into loving remembrance and find comfort.
PET LOSS
PET LOSS
Losing a beloved pet leaves you heartbroken and lost. From shock to deep sadness, grief for our companions is real and valid. Together, we'll process it and transform it into healing wisdom.
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